It’s been two and half years since I received my very first email asking if I had any books on sexual awakenings/female sexuality. The timing was impeccable.

LOVE SEX DESIRE hadn’t even been conceived yet but I was receiving lots of signs that it was time to bring this part of me to the table, and considering this email came from a woman who had a dream she needed to make this request to me, well…say no more.

In case you didn’t already know, my sexual awakening coincided with my spiritual awakening. Or maybe it was my spiritual awakening that coincided with my sexual awakening. Who knows. And who really cares. What’s important for you to know is that during that time, which was 6-7 years ago now, I was not seeking better orgasms, greater pleasure or boosting my libido. Instead, I was questioning marriage and monogamy, commitment and freedom, love and desire. I was trying to “fix” my overwhelming, all-consuming, and reckless sexual appetite.

So when I received this email, I knew I needed more information from her because the books I had on this topic focused more on open marriages and {married} women falling in love with women (two topics I’m not currently interested in), and something told me this was NOT the kind of sexual awakening she wanted books on.

Turned out this beauty wanted help with her very low, almost non-existent sex drive. It didn’t match her husband’s and it was starting to cause some issues. I recommended the only book I knew at the time that I thought might be able to help her. I also suggested she take up some practices reconnecting her with her body and feminine essence as this was what she really needed.

It’s been almost two and half years since that email. Soon after I stepped into LOVE SEX DESIRE and launched my Sacred Dance Parties, hosted intimate evenings, created an online program (which is currently being revamped) and the podcast series where I’ve interviewed a variety of experts in this field. I’ve also discovered several books that I frequently recommend to my clients (not because I’ve read them but because I know it’s the book that will meet them where they are). Plus, my collection of books that have deeply moved me is also growing.

Here are my top 10 books when it comes to embodying your full sexual potential as a woman and creating a thriving relationship with your man that is intimate and deeply fulfilling:

My HIGHLY RECOMMENDED Book List

If you want to learn the art of the female orgasm read SLOW SEX by Nicole Daedone.

If you want a comprehensive and practical guidebook on women’s sexuality read WOMEN’S ANATOMY OF AROUSAL by Sheri Winston.

If you want to heal your relationship with your female body and the sacred feminine read WILD FEMININE by Tami Kent.

If you want to call in a twin soul read SACRED SEXUAL UNION by Anayia Sophia.

If you want to rekindle desire in a long-term relationship read MATING IN CAPTIVITY by Esther Perel.

If you want to have an intimate, deep and fulfilling relationship read THE NEW RULES OF MARRIAGE by Terrence Real.

If you want your man to rise read THE QUEENS CODE by Alison Armstrong.

If you want to know how to trust yourself and others read INTIMACY by Osho.

If you want to learn the spiritual nature of your desire read THE POWER OF DIVINE EROS by A.H.Almass and Karen Johnson

If you want to take your great sex life to the next level listen to this audio book ENLIGHTENED SEX by David Deida.

Enjoy reading (and listening) lovers!

Big Love