Sexually dissatisified in your relationship? Do this.

This week on the LOVE SEX DESIRE podcast I’m answering a question from one of you beauties that recently landed in my inbox.

Here goes…

Hi Susana,

At the moment I’m having some major challenges in my relationship with my partner.

He has been going through a lot of inner turmoil in the last few years and during this time I’ve been committed to my own growth and healing. It recently reached a point where I could no longer stay, but now some events have taken place where he is genuinely and for his own reasons seeking healing and is doing his best with it all. [cool]

I’m okay with remaining in the relationship, using my intuition and allowing it to unfold as it should, but I’m really struggling with the complete lack of sex for the last few months (and infrequent sexual interaction for the last few years). [i would be too!!]

In the last little while (maybe 18 months) I’ve been expanding slowly into a fuller embodiment and connection with my sexual self, and I feel for a while now I’ve been my most open and expansive in this way and am ready to continue exploring this part of me in partnership. [go girl!!]

My partner has been having anxiety around sexual connection and this is causing him to close off to it completely, so I’m feeling really frustrated. Of course, I can do a lot of exploring on my own, but I’m so deeply craving that connection with the masculine sexual energy and that interaction and experience. I feel like I’m going a bit crazy! [I bet you are]

If you have any words of wisdom, suggestions, books, practices or practitioners you could share with me I would be most grateful.

Thank you

D x

I love this question because I know so many of us can relate in one way or another.

To hear my answer and discover what 3 simple steps you can take to help you create the sex life you want {with the one you want} click play below to listen {17mins}