Milf in the Spotlight features stories from women within the LOVE SEX DESIRE community who are currently juggling the roles of woman, lover, and mother.

“I just really got to the point where I was like, I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t know how to get to where I want to be in my marriage, in my relationship but also in myself.” ~ Tani Beister

Today’s special guest is Tani Beister. She’s been with her husband for 17 years – they were high school sweethearts. 

Together they have a 12yr old son.

Last year, after reaching a stalemate in their marriage despite trying all the things, they decided to open it. As a result, Tani has been on an epic journey that has awakened her sexuality in ways she never imagined.

In this episode Tani and I discuss:

• how becoming a mother impacted Tani’s body and sexuality
• the joy of living life in the “pleasure state”
• moving towards the things that scare us most
• reaching a stalemate in marriage despite doing everything in your power to make things better
• radically choosing yourself and taking responsibility for all that happens when you do
• having the hard conversations that rock the status quo
• sexual attractions with the same-sex and opening the marriage
• And so much more!

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To connect with Tani go to @tani.beister on Instagram. 

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Til next time, here is to exploring and celebrating all things LOVE SEX DESIRE.

Big Love