I’m not a sexologist or sex therapist.
I’m not a marriage or relationship counsellor.
And I’m not a tantra practitioner or yoni mapper.
I am, however, a speaker, writer, teacher, dance catalyst and personal coach who is obsessed with all things LOVE SEX DESIRE…an obsession that I’ve had for as long as I can remember.
When I was 6 or 7 years old, one of my friends told me I was going to be a stripper when I grew up. I didn’t really know what that was until Demi Moore showed me in Striptease. I grew up in a small country town so wasn’t privy to this lifestyle until I moved to the big city for my University Studies. It was here I became close friends with an American Stripper and had the honour of watching her perform one night.
The way she owned her body, the way she moved her body, the way she captivated the entire club with her stage presence…was mesmerising! So mesmerising that I bought a pole and got busy learning everything I could from my friend and whatever DVD I could get my hands on.
During this time I quickly realised that I wasn’t interested in learning pole tricks or a choreographed pole dance. Instead, I was more interested in evoking the erotic essence within.
This was the real magic.
This was what women {and men and the world at large} needed more than anything.
As much as I wish I had the courage to step into that work immediately, I didn’t. Instead, I got swept up in completing my degrees, getting married, raising a family and doing the thing I was really good at – teaching group fitness classes.
Those next five years were a blur.
Motherhood knocked me around.
Monogamy wasn’t making any sense to me.
And my moods fluctuated like a freakin’ wild woman.
By the time I was 25, I was so exhausted and numb. I was over pretending and hoping that everything was going to be okay, or that this was just a normal phase everyone goes through. Truth was, I needed help (and the personal development books and seminars weren’t cuttin’ it). Eventually, that help came to me in the form of a 10 day silent meditation retreat called Vipassana, the catalyst that changed everything.
From where I was then to where I am now, it took 10 days of silent meditation to get me back in my body. It took falling in love with a woman (something I thought was impossible for me) to bring me back to life. It took getting to know myself deeply through my Deep Coaching training to truly be intimate with presence. And it took journeying into my 8th chakra to remember that my life has always been about sex and dance.
Right now, I’m currently living into these 3 powerful questions:
- what does it take to create a thriving partnership?
- what does it take to bring out the best in a man? and,
- what does it truly mean to be an embodied woman living her full potential?
You can find the best of what I’m living and learning right here through my writings and on my weekly Podcast. If you’re ready to transform your relationships {with your body, your sexuality and your partner} then be sure to get in touch about working with me privately. Otherwise, do whatever you can to get your booty to one of my upcoming Sacred Dance Parties or intimate evenings. It’s where the best fun happens!
Big Love
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