How to know if you or your partner are turned on by Kink.

Are you ready {or at least curious} to explore the world of Kink – a world full of possibilities, creativity, expansion, freedom, healing, pleasure, and deep deep intimacy?

I hope so because for the next two months that’s exactly where I’ll be taking you for Season 6 here on the LOVE SEX DESIRE Podcast.

When it comes to KINK, there’s very little education out there about this world which means many of us are stuck believing all the BS misconceptions so we continue living in shame and judgment about our kinky turn-ons {that’s even if we admit we have kinky turn ons} and the turn-ons of others.

Which is sad.
Really sad.

What if KINK was the world that could {literally} save your relationship or marriage?

Or open your sexuality and feed your erotic starvation like nothing you’d ever experienced before?

Or heal some of your deepest wounds and liberate you {and your partner}?

Would you be willing to drop everything you ever thought you knew about this world just so you could try something new and find out what’s really possible for yourself AND your relationship?

If that’s a yes, or even a maybe, then keep on reading.

So, what does it even mean to be kinky?

I asked one of my favourite special guests, award-winning sexologist, best-selling author and Founder of the Erotic Blueprints, Miss Jaiya back on the podcast today so I could ask her that same question…and many others.

Jaiya has spent the last two decades immersing herself in the study of turn-on, ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, mastery of sensual touch, pure erotic play, kinky dynamics and the biology and psychology of attraction and sexual fulfillment.

Through observation and clinical research, Jaiya distilled all this work and created a revolutionary framework, the Erotic Blueprints™, that maps your particular language of arousal and turn-on.

There are 5 Erotic Blueprints: Energetic, Sensual, Kinky, Sexual and Shapeshifter.

Obviously, for the purpose of this series, we’re only exploring kinky.

Here’s what we cover:

what defines something or someone as kinky
what are the sexual needs, superpowers, and shadows of the Kinky Types
how to open the kink conversation with a partner using “the sex communication list”
what to do if old trauma resurfaces during your kink explorations
the importance of boundaries, consent, and safety
how kink saved Jaiya’s marriage and, surprisingly healed one of her deepest wounds

Click play to listen {45mins}