Milf life lessons from artist & coach, Vari Longmuir.

“…[I believed] there was a very specific way to be a mother and sexuality didn’t play a part in that.” ~ Vari Longmuir on integrating motherhood and sexuality.

Are you connected with the woman inside the mother?
Or has she long been forgotten?

Either way, there’s a lot to learn from today’s sexy mama, artist, illustrator, and coach, Vari Longmuir. 

Originally from Glasgow Scotland, Vari now lives by the beach just outside Melbourne with her two sons aged 7 and 9. Her journey balancing woman-lover-mother includes marriage, divorce, dating as a single mum and re-partnering…all of which we cover in this episode today.

Here’s what you’ll also learn:

  • The biggest change Vari noticed since becoming a mum nine years ago
  • The inherited beliefs about motherhood Vari needed to dismantle (most of which happened after her divorce)
  • The challenges Vari embraced as a newly single mother in her thirties (think sexual intensity like never before!)
  • Why Vari was grateful to be entering the dating scene in her thirties and not her twenties
  • Why getting nude photos is a powerful way to document your journey
  • How Vari keeps the spark alive in her new partnership
  • Plus so much more!

Click play to listen {45mins}


Items mentioned in this episode

Gareth Lewis – photographer


To connect with Vari go to varilongmuir.com

Til next time, here is to exploring and celebrating all things LOVE SEX DESIRE.

Big Love

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